Friday, June 26, 2015

The Past Two Weeks

Things have been super busy the last two weeks in the Hawk house. Our daily summer schedule has been touch and go as our lives have been pretty hectic.

June 15 - 19 the boys were in GA with Nana and Babu and then this week I have been busy presenting at a local education conference all day, every day.

Hopefully, this weekend will allow us some time to get things back to a little bit of a more normal routine.

Some photos and videos to tell our goings-on of the last two weeks…

Busy painting one of daddy's Father's Day gifts...

He built a hideout at Nana and Babu's house...

Following in his daddy's footsteps...

LOVE...

Ya think he is enjoying himself?

STANDING UP on the Slip N' Slide...

Laying down on the Slip N' Slide playing with a truck...

Stomping in the mud...

You didn't need the laundry to be in the baskets did you, mom? 

RF and JE's Father's Day gift to their daddy...

Another little gift...

RF LOVES rocks…he picks them up everywhere we go, so this was a very fitting gift for RA this year for Father's Day. 

No-mess finger-painting...

Letter match-up for RF...

Another letter match-up activity for RF...

As unsafe as it is, he was so proud of himself…goober…

Wednesday, June 17, 2015

A Trip to Mississippi to Visit the Grand/Great-Grand Parents

Last Friday, RF, JE and I loaded up for a trip to Mississippi to visit their Meme and their great grand-parents (my maternal grandparents).

The boys did well on the drive up, with us stopping at the Hattiesburg Zoo for a break, and they were so excited to see Meme and spend some time with their great-grand parents.

So many photos, so many photos. A few of my favorites are below detailing our fun two days.

The top two photos are of RF's last trip to Brookhaven when he was just shy of one. 
The bottom two photos are of RF this time around - same tricycle, same number of smiles with excitement...

Surveying the tractors and the trucks on Papaw's land...

Ellis and Mamaw doing some front porch sitting...

Mr. Ellis chasing behind his big brother on the tricycle...

RF and Papaw doing some front porch sitting...

Wandering around Mamaw and Papaw's property...

Beautiful...

Aunt Ernestine, who lives next door, has a dog named Bella and RF fell in love with her...

Running to see Bella...

RF and his new friends...

Riding one of Papaw's tractors...

Driving the tractor...

Two boys hanging out on the tractor...

Following in Papaw's footsteps...

That face...

Riding another tractor with Papaw...

Ellis joined RF on the white tractor, too...

Talking to Papaw about driving the tractor...

Drinking from the water hose…summertime in the south...

Of course, Mr. Ellis had to play with the water hose, too...

"Swimming" in Meme's new pool...

Ugh…that sweet, sweet face…

Crawling around in Meme's new pool...

Running around in the water...

Having a blast...

After a fun morning playing in the water, a nap, in a pallet - just like his mama used to do...

Crawling all over the front porch...

Can we say, SWEET? 

There's that face again...

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Our Beagle Babies...

Less than three months apart, 85 days to be exact, we have had to say good-bye to both of our beagle babies, Lucky in March and Charlie just a few days ago.

In reflecting back over our years with them in our lives we have so many funny, sweet, and silly stories that make us smile and those smiles are what we are trying to focus on at this particular time.

These two beagles came into our lives early on in our relationship. RA and I had been dating for just less than a year when we found Charlie on The Haven's website. One look at those big brown eyes and those long beagle ears and we were hooked.

When we rescued Charlie he had already had five different owners, a few of whom didn't take the best care of him, in his five year life. But on that sunny April morning in Fairhope, Charles Denson Brown joined our family. Charlie was king of the castle. He was a spry, yet incredibly overweight (45 lbs., I think…) peg-legged (he was run over by a car as a puppy and instead of amputating his leg it was fused at the knee, so he was unable to bend it) beagle who didn't let anything or anyone slow him down. He climbed stairs, loved walks and car-rides and was happy to be the center of our attention.

But a few days after we got him home we realized that while we were away at work and school he was very lonely. He would howl at the top of his lungs. A trip to our vet led us to realize that Charlie had separation anxiety. He had never been the only dog in a household and he wanted a friend…

Enter Lucky.

Out vet just so happened to have a female beagle, whom they had named Lucky, that had been dropped off after Hurricane Katrina. The person who dropped her off said that she was found roaming the streets of New Orleans after the storm (meaning she was in New Orleans during the storm). Our vet suggested that Charlie and Lucky meet to see how they responded to one another.

Brother/Sister love at first sight.

So, on that warm May afternoon in Daphne, just one month after we adopted Charlie, Lucky Katrina Brown joined our family.

These two beagles we no where near blood relatives, but you wouldn't ever have known. They loved each other so much. They were two peas in a pod. Truly.

Brother and sister...

They would look at each other as though to say, "You get up. No, you get up. No, I said YOU get up -  I was laying here first." 

She LOVED her daddy…

Celebrating his tenth birthday at Nana's house…

Snuggled up napping. This beagle LOVED to nap…

Sticking his head in the doggie door. He liked to do this to let us know that he was ready to come inside and that we could now open the door for him. Spoiled-rotten. 

Guarding his territory on the front porch…

She loved to bury herself under blankets - even in the summer. 

See, she loved to make herself a little nest…

Co-pilot on road trips…

Her favorite position to lay in on her couch…

But then, in May 2013 we found out that Lucky had bladder stones and unfortunately, in October of 2013 she was diagnosed with bladder cancer. Our vet told us it could be six months, it could be two years, there was no way to know how quickly things would progress. And so we began a drug regimen to try and slow the progression as much as possible and give her the best quality of life possible. We spoiled her. Big time.

But by February 2015 we knew things were getting worse and on March 21, after some additional symptoms arose that indicated that her quality of life was waning, we had to make the difficult decision to put her down. She was too good of a dog and we loved her entirely too much to let her suffer.

Charlie took Lucky's passing pretty hard. He missed his sister, his friend.

Also in February 2015 an x-ray of Charlie showed a mass in his abdomen. It could be a tumor of some sort, possibly cancerous, but surgery was the only way to know for sure and we didn't think Charlie, in his advancing age/health would be able to handle it. So, again a few prescriptions to get our oldest four-legged baby boy back to himself worked fairly well for a few weeks. But he would go through days/weeks where he just wasn't himself.

Last Thursday, we took a walk as a family and before we made it to the end of our street, maybe 150 yards, Charlie laid down in the grass and couldn't go any further. RA got our wagon and plopped Charlie, and RF, in it to take him on what I think I knew would be his last walk. On Saturday, while the boys and I were in Mississippi, RA called and asked me to come home - Charlie was not well at all - refusing food, water, vomiting and unable to stand up to go outside to use the bathroom.

Mr. Joe and Mrs. Margie were kind enough to meet me in Montgomery Sunday morning to take the boys for a few days while RA and I work on some house projects to get us closer to moving. I made it back to Mobile about 1:30 and two hours later, just as he came into our lives, Charlie stretched one last time and took one last big breath, with RA and I watching over him.

Having to make the decision to put Lucky down was a very difficult thing to do and now loosing Charlie less than three months later, we are beyond sad. Those two were our first "kids". And they loved RF and JE so much, not to mention how much RF and JE loved them.

When Lucky died I noted the quote below on my FB page and it rings so true.

"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying good-bye so hard." Winnie the Pooh

And I found this one earlier today and it rings just as true.

"Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened." Anatole France

We are better people because we had the opportunity to have them in our lives. Their unconditional love and their infectious happiness (they were beagles after all --- happy all the time) made them both the best of companions.

Rest well, Charlie and Lucky. And thank you for all the love and the slobbery beagle kisses.

Lucky Katrina Brown 

Charles Denson Brown 

The best of friends...