Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Easter!

Our first Easter as a family of three :-)
RF's first Easter basket...
The basket is one that I hand-made about 17 years ago and the Easter bunny brought RF eggs (filled with candy for mama and daddy), link toys, two teething toys (this teething thing is no joke...), socks and a cute little duck stuffed animal. 

RF has decided that he is a big boy and that he will sit up to eat his bottle - no more of that baby-hold stuff, mama - I'm a big boy :-)

RF wishing he could get his hands on some of our yummy lunch...all in good time baby boy, all in good time...

The table is set...

Lunch is ready!

First Easter Photo :-)

What a Wonderful Week...

Spring Break is over...boo...but summer is quickly approaching (40 school days) - thank goodness. I cannot wait to spend eight full weeks with my favorite boy. Some highlights from our week...
This is what RF thought of my to-do list for the week...he was not impressed. 

Naps...lots of naps...

Sweetness...

Hanging out chatting with friends after story time at the library...

Playing in his room with his beagle at his side...

Curious George...we love monkeys! 

Play date with friends...so much fun hanging out with other babies...

Hanging out at the Elberta Sausage Festival...
I cannot tell you how many people point and smile at RF when he has on his hat and sunglasses. We probably had 20 different people stop and comment how cool he looked - even a group of biker (motorcycle) dudes gave him a big thumbs up and he gave them a big laugh and a smile...

Cool dude...

Yummy!

Exhausted...

Helping daddy with a house project...

As RF was sitting outside with RA and Robert's parents I was working in the kitchen and had the back door open so I could see and hear them - absolutely most amazing moments - a daddy explaining to his son what he is doing and the son babbling back to him all the while watching intently at each move his daddy makes...don't worry RF - there will be PLENTY more house projects for you to help daddy with... :-)

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Five Months Old

Sheesh...five months old today. We are moving in to a really fun stage - RF is so animated, so happy, so curious and so BUSY. He loves to play with his toys, sit outside, 'talk' to you, and he is even sitting up. We lowered the pack n' play so that he can sit and play with his toys - he loves it.

We are so excited because this week is Spring Break for me - our game plan includes - mama and baby boy time - lots of playing and lots of naps :-), story-time at the library, visiting Lola and Papa Tad at work, working on RF's first year scrapbook, and getting ready for Nana and Babu to arrive on Friday. Not to mention getting ready for our first Easter with RF and since the family gathering is at our house this year, maybe, just maybe, a bit of housecleaning. Lots to do, lots to do. You cannot even imagine how excited I am to have a whole week with RF. Don't get me wrong, I love my job, I REALLY love my job, but there is nothing better than spending time with him - he is so much fun. And since I am so excited for this week, you can imagine how excited I am for summer - two whole months with him :-)

He caught me...trying to chew on my chin...

His daddy called his name as he was trying to chew on me...

Smiling for the camera

At Fort Conde with Lola

Fort Conde

Holding his own bottle

Which toy to choose...he went for the book by the way, that's my boy :-)

Chewing on his toes...

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What a 5 month old is interested in...

Toys, mama...toys... :-)

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Out and About

We enjoyed another weekend that was full of fun - Arts and Crafts Festival in Fairhope, Luck of the Irish Cookoff at Bienville Square, and brunch at the Grand Hotel.

RF does really well with being on the go - much like he is at home, as long as he is dry, fed, and well-rested he's good to go. Mommy on the other hand is completely exhausted - being on the go is one thing, but being on the go with a 4 1/2 month old is tiring.

I reminded myself tonight that less is more - I think we will stick to one major outing each weekend - two full days of events was a bit much for us, but I am so glad we were able to hang with the family and enjoy such great weather.

I will let the photos tell our weekend story...
Headed to Arts and Crafts with Meme, sporting his "R2" shirt

Naptime @Arts and Crafts 

He LOVES being outside and looking around

@ Luck of the Irish Cookoff Saturday afternoon - 
he couldn't have cared less about the St. Paddy's day parade
as proved by his yawn above
                                        
Taking it all in - so much to see

EXHAUSTED...

Sunday morning at the Grand Hotel - we did a photo shoot with dad as well - 
lots of new cute photos of our little family coming soon

LAUGHING at Uncle Michael 

Chewing on Aunt Hartley's finger

Some photos from this past week...
One cool dude

Tiggy and RF hanging out 

Sitting up :-)

Napping with daddy

RF as he woke up this morning...all smiles :-)

Sunday, March 10, 2013

A Chance to Reminisce


Yesterday was an amazing day…let me tell you the story.

On Fat Tuesday I left the house to make a Walgreens run. As I was leaving, I noticed a small, gray SUV parked across the street. I didn’t think much of it because this is Midtown – everyone parks in the side of the street. When I came back from Walgreens (we live 2 minutes from it, so I was gone maybe 10 minutes, tops) the small, gray SUV was sitting in our driveway. As I pulled up, they pulled out of the driveway and parked across the street again. I parked, got out and began walking towards the house. As I was approaching the steps I heard someone behind me say, “Excuse me, ma’am. But do you live in this house?” (pointing to our house). I told her that I did live in the house, with my husband and son. She introduced herself as Nancy and then proceeded to tell me that her mother and uncle grew up in the house in the 40s and 50s and that her mother’s birthday was coming up.

Then she asked the really cool question. She asked if we could arrange a time for her mother and uncle to come see the house – they hadn’t seen it since they moved out in the late 1950s. “Of course! It would be an honor,” I said. We exchanged phone numbers and agreed to set up a time soon.

Not too long after moving in to the house RA and I spent a day at the Historic Commission in Government Plaza tracing the property deeds of the house from the original builders and owners – the Torreys in 1902 to our purchase of the house in 2010. As Nancy and I talked that day on the sidewalk she mentioned her grandparents names which I immediately recognized as being owners of the house in the 40s and 50s, just as she had said.

Since I had to work all week I called my mom and asked her to come over Friday evening to help me clean the house (remember, there is a 4-month old in the house, so cleaning for real guests is not at the top of my priority list…)so that it would be presentable for our guests. We spent Friday evening and Saturday morning making sure things looked nice – I even had time to decorate the dining room table for Easter.

 As we waited for our guests to arrive RA and I took RF outside on the porch to swing and enjoy the weather.
Once they arrived and got out of the car, you could see the excitement and joy on the faces of Margie and Jimmy (Nancy’s mother and uncle – the ones who grew up in the house). They were beaming with smiles. Everyone introduced themselves and came in to the house and again, you could see the happiness on their faces. We spent the better part of an hour and a half going through all 2600 square feet of the house, room by room. As we moved through the rooms Margie and Jimmy recalled stories and memories that occurred in each room – a New Year’s Eve get-together in the living room, Christmas dinner in the dining room, their grandfather getting a cold drink out of the new refrigerator in the kitchen, and the warm summer evenings laying in their beds with the windows open listening to the noises of the city. Margie even told us that just inside the front door there was a small table with a radio and that is where she and the whole family was standing on Sunday, December 7, 1941 as the news of the attack at Pearl Harbor began to spread. They were again standing by the radio the next day as FDR addressed the nation. 

They were able to tell us about how the house looked today compared to when they lived in it and amazingly, a good bit of it is exactly the same – the living room, dining room and kitchen, the staircase, the transoms, and bedrooms, all just the same as they were in the late1950s when they moved out. A few things that they noted were different – the downstairs bathroom was their pantry/laundry room and the sunroom was their back porch that had a staircase that led to the upstairs back porch which is now our laundry room.

They also brought a photo album that had a number of photos of them growing up in the house which was amazing to see. We showed them the few photos we have of the house – ones we got at the Historic Commission. One photo we have is of the front of the house and there is a huge magnolia tree in the front yard. When we showed that photo to Margie and Jimmy they both said that is exactly how they remembered it and that they could even picture their grandfather and father sitting on the front porch. They also told us about all their neighbors – each house that is currently on our street was here when they lived here. They told us about playing outside all day in the summer – it was too hot in the house – no AC – and how you knew it was time to come home when the street lights came on - what a simpler time.



When we moved back to Mobile from Athens we knew we wanted an old historic home. Both being lovers of history, it fits us - our personalities and our lifestyle. I had never really thought though, until yesterday, about all the other families that have lived here and the memories that this house holds for them. As we create our memories with RF, we are reminded that these walls support 110 years worth of history. We love our home and we love living in a city that has such a special history, a city that, though it has changed quite a bit, still has such a special place in the hearts of its people, a city that holds memories of the past and is celebrated and appreciated by those living in the present.